I found this excellent quote on jaylendunoe‘s blog! A bonus that it is Will Smith, looking at his arms gave me a boost anyway!!

Aside from the picture, I think this is true wisdom from Mr Smith. Particularly when it comes to dating, chasing someone will make you feel more insecure and less valuable. This is not what we want, so if you find yourself chasing, I advise you to run in the opposite direction and remember your self-worth, which is HUGE!