People with lower self-esteem can often crave the attention of others, and on the path to obtaining it, unfortunately it can result in loss of self-respect, and often lower self-esteem.

A woman who flaunts herself provocatively and wears little clothing just to attract a man, for example. We all know that girl will certainly get attention, but she will not earn the man’s respect, and therefore it is likely he will end up showing her none.

I’m not saying attention is a bad thing, but I think a self-esteem boost will only come if it is sought after in the right way. Be that girl who walks into a room and gains attention from her demeanor, her smile, her classy dress-sense. Don’t be the girl who gets all the attention for the wrong reasons…