I’ve mentioned before that attention seeking is often a big sign of low self-esteem.
Emma Watson is such a wonderful role model for young women – she is successful, classy and intelligent. Her success comes from her ability to act, now through attention seeking ‘Miley Cyrus/Kim Kardashian’ methods.
An air of mystery is a great thing to have about you. I often made the mistake of thinking I was less fun and interesting because I was quieter than my friends around men and always got called ‘aloof and mysterious’.
However, I now can appreciate that being less loud and ‘in your face’ is a positive quality to have.
Being loud, bolshy, trashy, provacatively dressed etc. will gain you attention, but not respect.
Be mysterious and let them wonder instead.
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It’s harder to come by people with self respect and respect for others in Hollywood. I like the idea about being decent and classy and making others wonder who you are.
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