Day 20 of 31 Days of Wellbeing... So many of us fall into the trap of people pleasing. We are so keen to please, that we become afraid to disagree with someone...afraid of admitting the films we truly enjoy because we know the others think differently....scared of showing our real opinions at work...or maybe it's … Continue reading 31 Days of Wellbeing: Day 20
Don't be too worried about feeling a little fear in your heart. Bravery means taking a step when you're afraid sometimes, and bravery can take you some pretty amazing places.
You can deal with and conquer anything. Believe in yourself, work on improving yourself, work on increasing your self love and happiness. You are good enough and strong enough to deal with any problem.
If you let people walk all over you, you are teaching them a lesson. That they can walk all over you and get away with it. So they will learn from this lesson, and do it again. What's the alternative? When somebody does something which makes you unhappy, tell them this is not welcome and not … Continue reading Boost of the Day #161: Teach others what you deserve
You do not need to do anything particularly grand to change the world for the better. Small gestures - bringing a little kindness, generosity, helpfulness and happiness to others will shake lives and the world more than anything materialistic. Don't think you are not meaningful to the world because you're quietly doing good and not … Continue reading Boost of the Day #158: 1 pearl of Ghandi wisdom
Rather than spending your time and effort trying to be something different...trying to be something that goes against your true self, work on un-become everything that isn't really you. Stop pretending to like that style of music because your friends do, stop going to the gym if you hate it (and find something physical you DO enjoy!), … Continue reading Boost of the Day #152: Be who you were meant to be
I know it's perhaps the last thing you want to hear... but to increase your self confidence you are going to have to embrace those things you most fear doing. Whether that's holding a conversation with someone you fancy, trying a sport which you worry you'll be no good at or going for a job … Continue reading Boost of the Day #144: Self confidence
We all look silly sometimes, we all make mistakes, we are all foolish at times. This makes a person human, makes them real. Don't shy away from these moment - smile, laugh or breathe it off and move on. This gives you the power, gives you control over your life rather than letting it control you.
Some 'Monday Motivation' for everyone out there who struggled to get out of bed this morning, and probably will tomorrow morning as well. Don't hide away from the world and your potential - once you get up, dress up and show up, you're most of the way there.
Always striving to look beautiful? Make this year the one when you work on increasing your self esteem and loving yourself more than ever. That's when real beauty shines...