A little something to remember when you're mixing with lots of different people this holiday... It's a wonderful moment when someone grasps who you really are 🙂 Hold out for these people, they are out there...
Category: Relationships
12 Days of Xmas Wellbeing: Stop people pleasing
Over 12 days in the lead-up to Christmas, I’ll be writing 12 posts all about boosting your wellbeing… On the 8th day of Christmas my true love gave to me… 12 quotes to inspire and live by, 11 song lyrics and movie quotes to boost and motivate, 10 websites for when life gets tough, 9 ways … Continue reading 12 Days of Xmas Wellbeing: Stop people pleasing
Boost of the Day #111: Show your flaws
Boost of the Day #108: Self-worth
Boost of the Day #84: Don’t chase, but attract.
For the sake of your own self-esteem, do not chase others. I don't mean to just wait around and never take the initiative to get in touch with people and organise outings, but you should not have to persistently chase someone to get them to stay in your life. If you're always the one doing the … Continue reading Boost of the Day #84: Don’t chase, but attract.
Boost of the Day #75: Be Complete
Do you believe you need a relationship to make you a complete person? Believing this will inevitably lead to you being reliant (and often, needy) on another person to feel good about yourself. To truly have high self-esteem, you need to work on believing that you can be complete all by yourself. That way, you … Continue reading Boost of the Day #75: Be Complete
Boost of the Day #68: Piece of…
We put up many barriers around ourselves nowadays as we go through life. We get hurt and put up walls to prevent it happening again. We become defensive and easily angry at the people around us, often those who genuinely care about us. So try something different now. Try putting barriers down and offering people some … Continue reading Boost of the Day #68: Piece of…
Boost of the Day #58: Follow your path
Being rejected is tough. Whether it's a rebuff from your partner, being turned away from a job, betrayed by a friend, or all three on the same day (this does happen!), it can really take its toll on your self worth and self esteem. Many of us will immediately blame ourselves for what went wrong and beat ourselves … Continue reading Boost of the Day #58: Follow your path
Boost of the Day #50: Date yourself
I'm a strong believer in alone time. It gives you time to understand yourself as a person - your thoughts, your dreams, your fears. The more you do it, the more comfortable you will become with yourself. I took myself out for lunch on Saturday and it was glorious. I travelled alone for five months … Continue reading Boost of the Day #50: Date yourself
Boost of the Day #49: Ruin your lipstick, not your mascara
Why do we go after and stick with things that make us miserable? Why do we chase those who we know deep down are bad for us? I wish I had an answer for these questions! Start to learn which qualities in a person are really important to you, and which will make you truly … Continue reading Boost of the Day #49: Ruin your lipstick, not your mascara
