People pleasers. Parents, friends, men, colleagues, even strangers - you want everyone to think good of you. The thought of doing something that makes someone think badly of can make you very anxious. Being a people pleaser is not good for your self-esteem. Your mood and worth becomes dependent on how others react and think about you. So … Continue reading 5 tips to stop being a people-pleaser
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Boost of the day #42: No more begging
Have you ever found yourself in a position where someone you like, or even love, is slipping away, ignoring you or treating you disrespectfully? Did you hold your head up high and walk away? I know I haven't always done this. People with low self-esteem often chase and cling onto the idea that a person still has … Continue reading Boost of the day #42: No more begging
Boost of the day #30: Air of mystery
I've mentioned before that attention seeking is often a big sign of low self-esteem. Emma Watson is such a wonderful role model for young women - she is successful, classy and intelligent. Her success comes from her ability to act, now through attention seeking 'Miley Cyrus/Kim Kardashian' methods. An air of mystery is a great … Continue reading Boost of the day #30: Air of mystery
SELF-love conquers all…
It is inevitable that if you have low self-esteem and self-worth, you will end up attracting people who will treat you in this way, and reinforce the negative messages you believe about yourself. On the other hand, if you can fill yourself with self-love and respect yourself, you will attract people who will respect you … Continue reading SELF-love conquers all…
